You Make Your Own Luck
4 Jan
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Well, here it is, January 4, and I’m still not any closer to knocking my cold than I was the day after Christmas. I have taken everything I know to take, slept myself into oblivion, and even tried chugging colloidal silver. No. Still snotty, still sore throat, still coughing. I generally can knock a cold in about two days, so this is extremely annoying. On the plus side, I should be losing some weight, since all I eat is soup and green tea (with honey, lemon juice, chili powder, and cinnamon. Mmmmm.). The one day I started to feel better was New Year’s Eve, when our neighbor invited us to come over and have a drink with him and his wife. And the whiskey felt SO GOOD on my throat, so I just kept drinking it.
You can imagine, New Year’s Day, I felt even worse.
So, I haven’t gotten around to posting what I’ve been wanting to post (like the A-Z guide to marital aids? Can’t wait to embarrass the people I know with that post!). And when I HAVE been on the computer, the only thing I’ve wanted to do is enter contests. The catalyst for my new time-wasting hobby was when I received a package the other day, and in it was $136 worth of sunless tanning products. Including Fake Bake, which I keep meaning to buy because my trendy grandmother used to use it, and I always loved how real the tan looked after using it. Now that I have a whole plethora of products to try, I’m finding Fake Bake to not be as great as I remembered (still great tan, just MES-SY). I received these products as part of a panel of consumers who will test and find out the best one for a certain magazine’s beauty awards. I guess I really have an addiction to getting free stuff in the mail. Even if it’s nothing I’ll use personally and can give to someone, just seeing that little brown box or yellow envelope in my mailbox gets me excited. And I am a strong proponent of one making his/her own luck. After all, you’ll never win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket!
Which brings me to my friend, the one who has been staying with us, aka the one with the perpetual bad luck. The longer he stays with us, the more I am realizing that he alone is the key to his own misfortune. He’s always moping about how the girls he dates turn out to be whores. Well, the good girls he dates, he winds up throwing away for a skankier one, so I wonder why they turn out to be whores? I have been waiting to write this, because I didn’t want to write in anger. Because this is someone I’ve grown to really care about, and when he disappears for days on end, all of his friends and family members are out searching for him, worried sick if he’s in a ditch or somewhere. Okay, so I guess I am still a little upset about this. The Boyfriend and I are 32 (in 3 weeks!) and 25 years old. We don’t have children; we have dogs. And yet, it’s as if we have adopted a son over the past few months. We have taken this kid in under our wing, fed him, clothed him, made sure he had a place to bathe and a bed to sleep in. Assuming that one is staying with two struggling people like us rent-free, you would think that he/she would try his/her best to help out around the house, and make sure he/she was up every morning looking for a job. But is this ever the case? Of course not. I just don’t understand how someone can take advantage of people like that. And until now, it honestly hasn’t really bothered me. We offered, and he was depressed, so we wanted to take him under our wing. We don’t want anymore episodes like this one! So, the staying up all night on MySpace and Plenty of Fish talking to girls, sleeping all day, that was okay. As long as he was safe. And when he got together with my sister at Christmas. That was awkward, but good. At least I know she’s a good girl, and he’s a good person.
But telling one friend you’re with the other one, and telling the other one you’re with another one, and getting us all mixed up and worried, when in actuality, you’re at a friend’s ex-girlfriend’s house and don’t want to tell anyone? Well, you are just making your own luck. Soon, you are going to be moping about why you have no friends, and this will be why.
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How much colloidal silver are you taking and is it a good quality? This is very important. Also, sometimes colloidal silver makes you detox and you feel worse before you feel better. This is normal. I would continue taking it. Make sure you are taking colloidal silver and not ionic silver. Many mistake ionic for colloidal. I get mine from http://www.utopiasilver.com Put in Code LR001 and you get a 15% discount.
As for your houseguest? Been there, done that. Do it no more. Last houseguest I had was my brother-in-law and what you describe sounds sooooooooo familiar. One day I brought a calendar to him with a date circled a month ahead of time. I said….. “See this date? If you don’t have a job by this date, you don’t have a place to stay.” It worked.
My best to you, and I hope you feel better soon.
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I’ve been reading this great new book, “The How of Happiness” by Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky (don’t ask me to pronounce it) and it is a terrific book for anyone who is depressed or wants to increase their own happiness. Dr. Lyubomirsky is a social psychologist and a happiness researcher who has based her book on recent findings that the things most people think will make them happy (beauty, money, sex, food, alcohol, etc) only make up 10% of a person’s possible happiness, while 50% is a psychological set-point written in your mind. That leaves 40% which is entirely up to our perspective, our actions and our coping skills. She includes numerous examples of excessive that can help people get a better piece of that 40%. One which she suggests in the very beginning is very simple, but she claims that 94% who practiced it regularly felt relief of even severe depression… She suggests writing down three good things that have happened to you that day; anything, as long as you think it’s a good thing – even if it’s a little brown box in the mail.
Just thought that might help your depressed house guest. It seems to me that someone can be depressed so long that it begins to seem like a normal, or natural state of being. It isn’t until they begin to realize its unhealthiness that they begin to change for the better.
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Excellent blog, very imformative and to the point, keep up the good work.
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If you are using Colloidal Silver it is best to take it as soon as you first feel the symtoms of a cold or flu. If you are full blown sick a couple of high doses ( 4 onces) of 10 ppm should reduce the time of the cold or flu dramaticaly. if you take the recomended daily dosage of 1 to 2 teaspoons a daily, you should not even get the cold or flu at all.
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If you are using Colloidal Silver it is best to take it as soon as you first feel the symptoms of a cold or flu. If you are full blown sick a couple of high doses (4 ounces) of 10 ppm should reduce the time of the cold or flu dramatically. If you take the recommended daily dosage of 1 to 2 teaspoons a daily, you should not even get the cold or flu at all.
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